Grief Companion – An Experience Beyond the Sexy Parts
I am an escort that offers more than the sexy parts of our experiences. Whereas I absolutely love and enjoy the sexy parts, I also enjoy connecting on a mental and emotional level. Being a grief companion offers an experience where we can connect physically, mentally and emotionally.
I had no idea he was grieving. A grief companion was what he needed.
During the Backpage.com days, I had a client call for a last minute appointment. (I no longer accept same day appointments as the industry has changed vastly in the last 5 years. I am usually booked out two or more weeks in advance.) He called, gave me his information which I was able to quickly verify, and we set up a time for him to visit that day.
After he arrived, I showed him to my room where he got more comfortable and laid on the bed. I gave him a body rub for about 15 minutes and then he turned over for the sexy parts of our experience.
He was kind and quiet.
When we were finished, he got dressed, provided me with a tip and thanked me.
Over the next six months he became a weekly regular. The first few weeks we hardly spoke. We relaxed with a body massage and then took care of the fun bits of our experience, he tipped and then left. As time went on, he became a little more talkative. We chatted about our favorite local restaurants in the Florida Panhandle, our favorite book and what hobbies we had. Eventually our conversations became deeper as we got to know each other better. We would chat about our hopes and dreams and what the meaning of life was to us.
Six months after our first meeting, he arrived for our session on time as usual. He laid down my payment, with a huge tip, and thanked me for saving his life. Then he went on to share that the first day he visited me he had just left his wife’s funeral and was considering suicide. He decided if he was going to die, that he wanted a release before he took his life. After our first experience, he didn’t feel the urge to end his life. He spent the next several months depressed and working out his feelings through seeing me.
Being a grief companion is more than the sexy parts of my job. Sometimes people just need to snuggle and know that there is someone who cares about them, someone they can connect with on a sensual level. Occasionally people need to put their grief into a box and set it on a shelf while they relax and enjoy a few moments. And from time to time people need to feel the love they can experience from a regular companion comforting them during their time of need.
Grief companion is not an experience that every escort offers. Check out websites and ask before you contemplate this experience.