Pleasure with Friends

One of the most common questions I receive from clients is “do you really get pleasure from seeing clients, or are you faking it?”

My answer at 43 is very different from my answer at 23. At 23, not often. At 43, I experience pleasure with just about with every friend.

5 years into the industry, at 23 years old I still didn’t understand the ins and outs of my career. I showed up and provided good service, was always on time, clean and dressed for the occasion. When I arrived I had a little purse that had condoms of various sizes, baby oil and mouthwash/toothbrush/toothpaste. The very basic necessities. 

When I was younger, once in a while I would receive pleasure from seeing clients. It wasn’t as often as I would have liked though, putting me in a position where I had to fake pleasure. 

For anyone who knows me, knows that lying isn’t my strong suit. I am brutally honest. Therefore, faking orgasms didn’t land well and I believe most clients knew when I was faking it. 

I loved my job and was convinced I would love it more if I got more physical pleasure from the friends I would see. In my late 20’s I started to explore my own body more. I wanted to find out exactly what made me wet, what got me excited, what scratched my itch. 

There were a few regular friends who I saw often. I decided to experiment and explore my body with them. They were both very sensually dominant men who wanted to please me above all. I shared my desire to learn more about my own body and they were both happy to help me explore. 

My Body Exploration Began

I learned about my own boundaries, my own desires, and figured out what I wanted with sexual encounters.

Exploring my own body with these gentlemen allowed me to figure out that different penis shapes and sizes worked with different positions to make me orgasm. For example, a penis with a curve towards the man’s body feels best for me in missionary position. The penis massages the right spot in this position for an easy to obtain orgasm.

At 43, I can look at a penis and be able to determine which positions would bring me to orgasm. After I figured out how to derive pleasure from most of my friends, I loved my career even more. 

It is exciting knowing that I’m going to meet a friend I haven’t seen in a few weeks and we both are going to have a pleasure filled time together. The more we interact on a sensual level, the more we get to know each other’s body, the more pleasure we experience. 

When I meet new friends there is a high likelihood that I will receive physical pleasure during our time together. The excitement of meeting new friends combined with my self-knowledge of my own body is the perfect combination for an adventurous rendezvous. 

So to make a long story short, yes, most times I do receive pleasure from my experiences with friends. 

Let’s get together and I’ll show you 😉

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Gabby loves pleasure with familiar friends as well as with new friends.